Yup, we thought we’d never see those three words together, either, but the folks at Aisle Say, the blog at Brides.com, asked a top wedding planner for her tips for planning a stylish, not tacky, Halloween wedding. The news is that you don’t have to invite the ghouls and goblins to play, and there doesn’t have to be a jack-o-lantern on every table. Her advice? Throw a masquerade-inspired party complete with masks. Read the whole story here, and feast your eyes on a gothic Halloween celebration here.