I’ve said it before, but I’ll say it again: some of the best ideas for your wedding will come from others’ weddings. I went to a friend’s wedding a couple of weekends ago, and I love this tradition in their family: newlyweds for at least a dozen years have used the same toasting glasses at their reception. My friend has lots of cousins, so these glasses have seen lots of weddings over the years. The most recently married couple presents the glasses to the newlyweds at the reception, explains the tradition to the guests and toasts them in a few words of congratulations. My friend and her new husband will bring the glasses to the next family wedding.